It’s easy to look at what makes us different, thoughts like, "I was a poor kid in a rich school, I just can’t connect, I'm too tall or not tall enough."
Children connect by being the same. They like the same things, which makes them feel safe. But feeling different can become a self fulfilling prophecy, because if we’re different we may unconsciously feel we’re not going to survive. Think of the runt of the litter who might be rejected and not survive.
Even recently I felt different because I've never been married. I should have at least one divorce under my belt like everyone else. I know, silly, right?
Or I felt different because I lived in an apartment. I felt by my age I should own a house. usually feeling different makes us feel lie we are not enough.
We connect by being the same.
Our greatest fear is to be different, so if you fear being different, you’re the same as everyone else and everyone else is the same as you.
We’re unique but we’re not different.
You can also celebrate the differences. It's a belief and you can stop believing it.
It's good to be unique!
if you fear being different...using RTT, Rapid Transformational Therapy, I can help you to let go of all the thoughts, beliefs, and emotions that have been holding you back from achieving your goals. We reframe them and give you new beliefs and a more positive mindset, that align with your desires.
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