It really felt as though as I had run straight into a wall and I crashed. In bed with a Man cold, zero energy, no appetite and feeling awful for a full 10 days!
This naturopath had to learn to practice what I preach!
To take some down time every day. The minimum I
set for myself is now one hour. Time for self care, self love. I go for a walk, or meditate, or exercise, or read, I do things I love.
Overwork is what's been stopping me from feeling perhaps feelings of sadness or loneliness. And there is nothing wrong with feeling that way once in a while, and feeling great most of the time. I don't need to avoid those feelings.
I have friends that have been telling me for years, to stop working all the time.
So I finally got it! Getting sick was a gift!
I know that of course I can be even more productive and creative by taking regular time off, rather than by working all the time.
What has
been stopping you? What is your addiction of choice? For many of my clients it's food. What feelings have you been avoiding? Can you simply allow them to be there. Experience them fully, release them, know that it's part of life.
How can you give yourself some self loving instead of stuffing down or avoiding the "negative" feelings with the coping mechanisms mentioned above?
Give it a try and let me know how it works!